“I want my daughters-in-law to work, why waste their degree?” – Asma Abbas empowered women at Home to become financially independent
Veteran Pakistani actor Asma Abbas, celebrated for her memorable roles in dramas like Ranjha Ranjha Kardi, Chupke Chupke, and the recent Dastak, recently appeared on Good Morning Pakistan with her daughter-in-law, Sameen. Known not just for her powerful performances but also for her candid personality, Asma Abbas shared heartfelt thoughts on her family dynamic and, in particular, her vision for the women who become part of it.
“I want my daughters-in-law to work because they are educated women, why waste their degree?” she said, drawing praise from viewers for her progressive mindset. In a society where women are often expected to put their careers on pause after marriage, Asma’s take stands out as refreshingly modern and supportive.
Pakistani households are evolving, and Asma Abbas represents the kind of change many women silently hope for. Her comments reflect not just tolerance, but active encouragement of women pursuing their goals beyond the four walls of a home.
She added, “What will they do sitting at home? We have house help,” highlighting how work outside the home can be a source of identity, purpose, and independence for women. For many, this is the kind of support system that enables balance between professional aspirations and family life.
Asma’s bond with her daughter-in-law, Sameen, who also praised her in-laws for being welcoming and kind, reflects how women can be empowered when they are trusted and treated as individuals. In a moment of lighthearted honesty, Sameen recalled sleeping in on her first day and expecting to be scolded, but was met instead with warmth and humor.
Asma’s response was equally graceful. “I don’t mind her waking up late. It reminds me of Zara, she also loves her sleep,” she laughed, drawing a connection between acceptance and understanding personal quirks.
While she did add that she prefers daughters-in-law not to wear “sleeping suits” and be presentable, the larger message was one of encouragement, urging women to take pride in being active, engaged, and professionally fulfilled.
Her statement is more than a personal opinion; it reflects a growing shift in mindset among many Pakistani families. A shift where educated, confident, and working daughters-in-law are not just accepted, but celebrated.
In a world where women are constantly navigating the balance between expectations and ambitions, hearing support from influential voices like Asma Abbas helps normalize the idea that a working woman is not just fulfilling her own dreams but also redefining the dynamics of modern family life.
